Everyone is not a winnner

Everyone should not get a trophy, losing can serve as a greater learning tool than winning we need to take risk to grow, be where we need to be, comfortable being uncomfortable. We all need to struggle, and in those struggles we need a focal point in the moment.

Great athletes know this, great coaches teach it and great teams win with it a blend of skill, intuitive awareness and athleticism that the players have one another's back, pick each other up when one is down, make a great play when one makes a bad mistake. There is no selfishness, self interest, you show up to compete putting the teams interest over your own. Sometimes you win and sometimes you fail miserably.